It's all Evan's fault

In an IM to me today Evan says: "I know. I'm sorry he's being slow. He gets that from his father" There it is! He's so right. He'll come when he's ready and no one can convince him otherwise until he's decided. We started promising everything last night: a name, a car at 16, free college education to any school he wanted, anything we thought might motivate him. He must be waiting for something, right? Maybe mom and Aunt Beverlys birthday's.